The Naked Leadership Podcast

This Is Goodbye!... For Now.

Summary

After four years of the Naked Leadership Podcast, Chad, Adrian, and Dan announce that they will be putting the podcast on pause. They reflect on the evolution of the podcast and the value it has brought to their lives. They discuss the benefits of exploring ideas and sharpening their thinking through the podcast. They also express gratitude for the listeners and the impact the podcast has had on them. They highlight the library of conversations and content that will continue to be available for listeners. In this final part of the conversation, Adrian and Dan express their gratitude to Chad for his contributions to the podcast and the company. They discuss the expansion of their services to include larger companies and the challenges faced by leaders in those organizations. They emphasize the importance of focusing on people solutions rather than just strategy and processes. They also highlight their unique approach of working alongside clients to co-create solutions and the value they bring in integrating head, heart, and action. They express excitement about the future and invite listeners to stay connected and reach out for conversations.

Takeaways

• The Naked Leadership Podcast has been a valuable platform for exploring ideas and sharpening thinking.
• The podcast has provided a container for rigorous discussions and the opportunity to learn from each other.
• The library of conversations and content from the podcast is a valuable resource for listeners.
• The podcast has had a meaningful impact on the hosts' lives and the lives of the listeners.
• The hosts express gratitude for the listeners and their support throughout the podcast's journey. Expressing gratitude and appreciation is important in building strong relationships.
• Expanding services to larger companies presents new challenges and opportunities.
• Focusing on people solutions is crucial for success in organizations.
• Co-creating solutions with clients leads to more impactful and sustainable outcomes.
• Integrating head, heart, and action is key to personal and organizational growth.
• The future holds exciting possibilities and opportunities for growth.
  Listeners are invited to stay connected and reach out for conversations.

 

Suffer For Something, Not From

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The conversation explores the concept of suffering and how it can be approached from two different perspectives: suffering from something and suffering for something. The distinction between these two approaches is crucial in determining one's mindset and attitude towards challenges. The conversation also emphasizes the importance of perception and attitude in shaping our experiences. Additionally, the power of discipline and engagement is highlighted as key factors in overcoming suffering and achieving vitality. The conversation concludes with a discussion on navigating tensions in relationships and finding a balance between different roles and perspectives. The conversation explores the complexities of co-parenting and the importance of setting boundaries while respecting different parenting styles. It emphasizes the need for both parents to stand for what is right and navigate tensions together. The discussion also delves into the role of jealousy in personal growth and the importance of creating the right environment for growth. It highlights the contrast between scarcity and generosity and the need to be open to learning from others. The conversation concludes with the idea that being nothing allows for the emergence of one's true self and the creation of an environment for breakthroughs.

 

Celebrate Quitting

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Cliff Notes: Flexibility Brings New Opportunities

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Summary

In this conversation, Chad discusses a new opportunity he is pursuing as a fractional executive in people development and talent development. He shares his excitement and concerns about the role and the unknowns that come with it. Adrian then shares his experience in a recent Revenant training, where he had a challenging interaction with another participant. They discuss the importance of being open to feedback and unloading judgments. They also invite listeners to join them in an upcoming Revenant training in Los Angeles.

Takeaways

Embrace new opportunities and be open to the unknowns that come with them.
Being organized can help maintain focus and be present in different areas of life.
Unloading judgments and being open to feedback can lead to personal growth and transformation.
Being unaffendable allows for adaptability and flexibility in relationships.
Participating in personal development trainings can be a transformative experience.

Chapters

00:00 Introduction and New Opportunity
01:19 Becoming a Fractional Executive
03:57 Excitement and Concerns
05:58 Preparing for the Role
07:25 Intervening in Conversations
09:09 Being More Organized
10:46 The Zeigarnik Effect
13:54 Reflecting on the Revenant Experience
18:49 Receiving Feedback and Responding
21:18 Judgments about Divorce
23:17 Being Wide Open and Undefendable
28:48 Impact of the Interaction
31:23 Upcoming Revenant Training
33:01 Conclusion

Flexibility Brings New Opportunities

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Summary

In this conversation, Chad discusses a new opportunity he is pursuing as a fractional executive in people development and talent development. He shares his excitement and concerns about the role and the unknowns that come with it. Adrian then shares his experience in a recent Revenant training, where he had a challenging interaction with another participant. They discuss the importance of being open to feedback and unloading judgments. They also invite listeners to join them in an upcoming Revenant training in Los Angeles.

Takeaways

Embrace new opportunities and be open to the unknowns that come with them.
Being organized can help maintain focus and be present in different areas of life.
Unloading judgments and being open to feedback can lead to personal growth and transformation.
Being unaffendable allows for adaptability and flexibility in relationships.
Participating in personal development trainings can be a transformative experience.

Chapters

00:00 Introduction and New Opportunity
01:19 Becoming a Fractional Executive
03:57 Excitement and Concerns
05:58 Preparing for the Role
07:25 Intervening in Conversations
09:09 Being More Organized
10:46 The Zeigarnik Effect
13:54 Reflecting on the Revenant Experience
18:49 Receiving Feedback and Responding
21:18 Judgments about Divorce
23:17 Being Wide Open and Undefendable
28:48 Impact of the Interaction
31:23 Upcoming Revenant Training
33:01 Conclusion

Cliff Notes:Unspoken Promises

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Summary

 

In this conversation, Chad and Adrian discuss the importance of being a son and the promises that come with it. Adrian shares his experience of organizing a celebration for his parents' 50th anniversary and reflects on the significance of fulfilling the role of a son. They explore the tendency to justify not keeping promises when others fail to do so and the impact it has on relationships. In the conversation, they take a look at the power of empathy and forgiveness in releasing resentment and finding freedom. They explore the importance of keeping promises and the tendency to react to broken promises. It delves into the concept of faith and adventure in everyday life, emphasizing the idea that adventure is always on the edge of stability and comfort. The inherent office of a father or mother is discussed, highlighting the investment and deposits made in relationships. The conversation also touches on the weight of being an atheist and the rediscovery of faith. It concludes with a reflection on Jordan Peterson and his ability to speak to the universal human condition.

 

Takeaways

• Fulfilling the promises of the office of a son is important in maintaining healthy relationships with parents.
• Justifying not keeping promises based on others' failures is a common but unproductive behavior.
• Empathizing with those who have hurt us can lead to forgiveness and freedom.
• Being clean with parents involves being honest, unhindered, and free from resentment or bitterness. Pay attention to the places where you justify not keeping your promises because someone else hasn't kept theirs. Instead, have the needed conversation and address the broken promise.
• Adventure is available every single moment of every single day. It is about stepping into the uncomfortable and unstable, and having faith in the call to adventure.
• Recognize the inherent office of a father or mother and invest in relationships by making deposits and being present.
• Being an atheist requires conviction and belief, just like any other belief system. Rediscovering faith can bring a sense of purpose and meaning.
• Jordan Peterson speaks to the universal human condition, emphasizing the need for meaning and the call to adventure.

 

Chapters

00:00 Introduction and Missing Teammate

01:43 Adrian's Parents' 50th Anniversary

03:26 The Promise of the Office of a Son

07:38 Keeping Promises and Justifying

09:22 Reflection on Being a Son

12:15 Empathy and Forgiveness

21:29 The Importance of Keeping Promises

22:07 Addressing Broken Promises

23:15 Reacting to Broken Promises

25:39 Faith and Adventure

26:40 The Obstacle is the Way

27:25 The Inherent Office of a Father or Mother

28:23 Adventure in Everyday Life

29:35 Faith as the Call to Adventure

31:11 The Weight of Being an Atheist

33:08 Rediscovering Faith

38:14 Jordan Peterson and the Universal Human Condition

Unspoken Promises

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Summary

 

In this conversation, Chad and Adrian discuss the importance of being a son and the promises that come with it. Adrian shares his experience of organizing a celebration for his parents' 50th anniversary and reflects on the significance of fulfilling the role of a son. They explore the tendency to justify not keeping promises when others fail to do so and the impact it has on relationships. In the conversation, they take a look at the power of empathy and forgiveness in releasing resentment and finding freedom. They explore the importance of keeping promises and the tendency to react to broken promises. It delves into the concept of faith and adventure in everyday life, emphasizing the idea that adventure is always on the edge of stability and comfort. The inherent office of a father or mother is discussed, highlighting the investment and deposits made in relationships. The conversation also touches on the weight of being an atheist and the rediscovery of faith. It concludes with a reflection on Jordan Peterson and his ability to speak to the universal human condition.

 

Takeaways

• Fulfilling the promises of the office of a son is important in maintaining healthy relationships with parents.
• Justifying not keeping promises based on others' failures is a common but unproductive behavior.
• Empathizing with those who have hurt us can lead to forgiveness and freedom.
• Being clean with parents involves being honest, unhindered, and free from resentment or bitterness. Pay attention to the places where you justify not keeping your promises because someone else hasn't kept theirs. Instead, have the needed conversation and address the broken promise.
• Adventure is available every single moment of every single day. It is about stepping into the uncomfortable and unstable, and having faith in the call to adventure.
• Recognize the inherent office of a father or mother and invest in relationships by making deposits and being present.
• Being an atheist requires conviction and belief, just like any other belief system. Rediscovering faith can bring a sense of purpose and meaning.
• Jordan Peterson speaks to the universal human condition, emphasizing the need for meaning and the call to adventure.

 

Chapters

00:00 Introduction and Missing Teammate

01:43 Adrian's Parents' 50th Anniversary

03:26 The Promise of the Office of a Son

07:38 Keeping Promises and Justifying

09:22 Reflection on Being a Son

12:15 Empathy and Forgiveness

21:29 The Importance of Keeping Promises

22:07 Addressing Broken Promises

23:15 Reacting to Broken Promises

25:39 Faith and Adventure

26:40 The Obstacle is the Way

27:25 The Inherent Office of a Father or Mother

28:23 Adventure in Everyday Life

29:35 Faith as the Call to Adventure

31:11 The Weight of Being an Atheist

33:08 Rediscovering Faith

38:14 Jordan Peterson and the Universal Human Condition

Humility Is Tricky

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This week Dan and Adrian sit down with chad to talk about humility. Misconceptions and what it really is.

Topics we cover:

• We ought to have it, but don't prefer it
• The paradox of humility
• Accepting compliments
• Self-deprecation... healthy or not?
• Being willing to learn

Cliff Notes: Presence, Gratitude, and Vulnerability

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Summary:

In this conversation, Adrian discusses his new role as a trainer and the emotions and growth he is experiencing. He reflects on his journey of learning from Dan and his excitement and vulnerability about leading the Revenant Process. Dan shares a heartwarming story about spending time with his granddaughters and the joy and fulfillment he experiences as a grandfather. Chad talks about the significance of being present and generating meaningful experiences with his children. He also shares his pride in his daughter's achievements in her last high school swim meet. The conversation concludes with Chad sharing a culminating moment for his daughter, who recently finished her high school swimming career. Dan expresses his admiration for her and her dedication to swimming. They discuss the challenges of swimming, particularly the 500-meter race. Surprisingly, Dan reveals that he was on a swim team in seventh grade, motivated by a crush on a teammate. The conversation ends with gratitude and farewells.

Takeaways

Taking on new roles and responsibilities can bring up emotions and feelings of vulnerability, but they also provide opportunities for growth and transformation.
Spending quality time with loved ones and being present in those moments can create lasting memories and deep connections.
Being a parent or grandparent involves sacrifices and commitments, but the rewards of seeing the impact of your love and guidance on the next generation are priceless.
Being receptive and attentive to the experiences and relationships in our lives allows us to fully appreciate and savor the meaningful moments. 
Supporting and celebrating the achievements of loved ones is a meaningful experience.
Unexpected revelations can arise in casual conversations, providing new insights into someone's past.
Expressing gratitude and saying goodbye with warmth and sincerity creates a positive and memorable interaction.

Chapters

00:00 Introduction
00:20 Adrian's New Role as a Trainer
05:20 Adrian's Transition to Leading the Revenant Process
09:35 Adrian's Vulnerability and Growth
21:57 Dan's Reflection on Family and Grandchildren
32:18 Chad's Commitment to Being Present
37:24 Chad's Reflection on Addison's Last Swim Meet
37:53 Culminating Moment for Chad's Daughter
38:24 Dan's Comment on Chad's Daughter
39:09 The Challenges of Swimming
39:29 Dan's Past as a Swimmer
40:08 Conclusion and Farewell

Presence, Gratitude, and Vulnerability

https://wearerevenant.com/

Summary:

In this conversation, Adrian discusses his new role as a trainer and the emotions and growth he is experiencing. He reflects on his journey of learning from Dan and his excitement and vulnerability about leading the Revenant Process. Dan shares a heartwarming story about spending time with his granddaughters and the joy and fulfillment he experiences as a grandfather. Chad talks about the significance of being present and generating meaningful experiences with his children. He also shares his pride in his daughter's achievements in her last high school swim meet. The conversation concludes with Chad sharing a culminating moment for his daughter, who recently finished her high school swimming career. Dan expresses his admiration for her and her dedication to swimming. They discuss the challenges of swimming, particularly the 500-meter race. Surprisingly, Dan reveals that he was on a swim team in seventh grade, motivated by a crush on a teammate. The conversation ends with gratitude and farewells.

Takeaways

Taking on new roles and responsibilities can bring up emotions and feelings of vulnerability, but they also provide opportunities for growth and transformation.
Spending quality time with loved ones and being present in those moments can create lasting memories and deep connections.
Being a parent or grandparent involves sacrifices and commitments, but the rewards of seeing the impact of your love and guidance on the next generation are priceless.
Being receptive and attentive to the experiences and relationships in our lives allows us to fully appreciate and savor the meaningful moments. 
Supporting and celebrating the achievements of loved ones is a meaningful experience.
Unexpected revelations can arise in casual conversations, providing new insights into someone's past.
Expressing gratitude and saying goodbye with warmth and sincerity creates a positive and memorable interaction.

Chapters

00:00 Introduction
00:20 Adrian's New Role as a Trainer
05:20 Adrian's Transition to Leading the Revenant Process
09:35 Adrian's Vulnerability and Growth
21:57 Dan's Reflection on Family and Grandchildren
32:18 Chad's Commitment to Being Present
37:24 Chad's Reflection on Addison's Last Swim Meet
37:53 Culminating Moment for Chad's Daughter
38:24 Dan's Comment on Chad's Daughter
39:09 The Challenges of Swimming
39:29 Dan's Past as a Swimmer
40:08 Conclusion and Farewell